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femme dyke in need to get out of abusive situation

femmevulcan:

Hi everyone,

 My name is Ezra. I’m 24, agender, lesbian, vegan straight edge and disabled. I’m desperately looking for a place to stay even if it’s for a few days with a queer person in VA Beach/Norfolk VA area (please don’t comment if you live in Richmond I have no way of getting to Richmond).

Long story short I live with a physically/verbally and emotionally abusive alcoholic roommate at the moment who has put threats against my life and has physically hurt me. I need a place to stay with some like minded queers that don’t mind that I’m vegan and don’t drink. I’m very friendly and don’t mind doing odd chores around the house. If you want money I’m on disability at the moment and can only provide 250$ but hopefully it will help. I also have a pet lizard (she’s a skink) named Mortica that I would die if I parted with, so if there is a place for her as well I would be so grateful.

randompandemonium:

soprie:

actionables:

hmm, yoga is kind of girly #nohomo
let’s rename it so it sounds manlier and make it just for the bros
for the bros only

WHY DO MEN NEED TO REBRAND EVERYTHING TOUCHED BY WOMEN?

SIT DOWN AND EAT YOUR YOGURT AND SALAD AND DO YOUR YOGA

FOLLOW UP YOUR INTENSE BROGA SESSION WITH SOME BROGURT AND A BRAH-LAD

no-literally:

thebobblehat:

findsomethingtofightfor:

petitetiaras:

You know what’s truly sickening about this particular scene? This dress (before the mice gave it a makeover) originally belonged to her deceased mother. Cinderella hardly has any personal possessions due to the greed of her stepmother and stepsisters. So, I assume that this dress meant quite a lot to her as a reminder of a simpler and happier time in her life. It symbolizes a fresh start and a chance at a better life for her.  It must have been traumatizing to see her dreams just destroyed, literally ripped from her, torn to shreds. Not to mention, they verbally abuse her calling her a “thief” and a “kitchen wench”. In the end when Cinderella is standing alone in rags, it’s animated so beautifully because you can feel this weight and this sense of hopelessness. Cinderella’s a girl who even said herself that no one could take away her dreams. But in this scene, you can see she’s giving up.

That’s why it is so important that Cinderella gets her happily ever after. Her Fairy Godmother is a symbol of faith and perseverance in hard times. After all, “Even miracles take a little time.”

I have to say I always hate it when Cinderella is criticized for needing “a man” or a “fairy godmother” to save her. Like I get that we should encourage independence and strength but I think people forget Cinderella was stuck in an abusive household.So often kids and even older teenagers get lost in households like that. There’s literally no way out for them. If anything we shouldn’t be criticizing Cinderella, we should be encouraging more people to become Fairy Godmothers.

THIS.

Tagging zeldasbubblegum! because she loves the Disney so very very much.

hellacamber:

heycourtneymae:

widebooty:

alittlebitridiculous:

sizvideos:

Watch the inspirational video of this quadriplegic who plays and streams Diablo 3

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!!!!!!!!!!!!

I’ve been watching this guy’s livestreams for a few days now. He’s super positive and really nice to all his viewers, answering everything he can. Also considering his abilities he is really good at Diablo III and WoW. Like the fact that I could have been playing WoW with people like him and getting my ass handed to me by them is part of the reason I appreciate video games as a form of therapy.

"I’m really feeling good about myself!"

This makes me SO happy. Amazing!

Technology.

pyramidslayer:

often it’s hard to speak up about abuse you have faced or even recognize that someone is an abuser, because of the way that abusers hide their tracks and exert control over other people. this means that if you’re a person who is currently safe from abuse and you want to help make sure abuse is brought out into the open as quickly as possible and keep people  safe from it, it’s important to take countermeasures against the kind of tactics that abusers use

abusive people exert a level of control over their social circle to make sure their abuse isn’t recognized, so you should try to cultivate a space where victims feel supported enough to air grievances. abusers use the threat of financial instability (often to the point of threatening victims with homelessness) to keep people in check, so work towards making a world where everyone’s needs are met without having to be dependent on a specific person. abusers have tactics that confuse their victims and make it more difficult for them to recognize abuse, so make sure everyone’s aware of resources for abuse victims and provide those resources to people who think they may be a victim of abuse

i hope y’all stay safe, ok

kindofrighteous:

if i ship a fictional heterosexual couple their writers should congratulate themselves

It seems that when you want to make a woman into a hero, you hurt her first. When you want to make a man into a hero, you hurt… also a woman first.

lennyisajew:

if y’all aren’t including Jewish people in your social justice then you’re doing a shitty job.

if y’all are actively excluding Jewish people in your social justice then you probably shouldn’t call your activism that.

In the 1890s, when Freud was in the dawn of his career, he was struck by how many of his female patients were revealing childhood [sexual] victimization to him. Freud concluded that child sexual abuse was one of the major causes of emotional disturbances in adult women and wrote a brilliant and humane paper called “The Aetiology of Hysteria.” However, rather than receiving acclaim from his colleagues for his ground-breaking insights, Freud met with scorn. He was ridiculed for believing that men of excellent reputation (most of his patients came from upstanding homes) could be perpetrators of incest.
Within a few years, Freud buckled under this heavy pressure and recanted his conclusions. In their place he proposed the “Oedipus complex,” which became the foundation of modern psychology… Freud used this construct to conclude that the episodes of abuse his clients had revealed to him had never taken place; they were simply fantasies of events the women had wished for… This construct started a hundred-year history in the mental health field of blaming victims for the abuse perpetrated on them and outright discrediting of women’s and children’s reports of mistreatment by men.
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― Lundy Bancroft

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read this carve it into your brains permanently etch it into your skulls r e a d  t h i s

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i don’t know how to deal with this

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